Thursday, July 19, 2012


I was talking with a friend, recently and he said we spend more time counseling people that pre marital sense is dangerous forgetting that extra marital sex is more dangerous.

Extra marital affairs and illicit sex destroys lives. We must help ourselves by purposing in our heart like Daniel in Daniel 1: 8. There are all kinds of evil men and women looking for men and women to devour. Extra marital sex is dangerous as its an evil that steals, kills and destroy like the originator the devil. Help yourself by;

1. Stay on your guard, flee like Joseph in Genesis 39:7-12.

2. Make your spouse your accountability partner and get an older and trusted matured Christian person to also keep you accountable. Please if you are male, find a male accountability partner and if female, find a female accountability partner.

3. Stay in the word of God, be full of God's words, so you can escape the wickedness of the devil. Renew your mind daily with God's words. Hide God's words in your heart, so you will not sin against Him and man. Proverbs 5, Proverbs 6:20-35, Proverbs 7, Romans 12:1-2, Colossians 3, and Galatians 5:16-25 are scriptures worth reading constantly.

4. If you are already involved, please, break the illicit affair and ask God to help you, confide in your spouse, if your spouse can handle it, let him/ her know, ask for forgiveness and don't go back to such evil lifestyle. Get a spiritual leader to help you and your spouse go through the season of reconciliation, if need be.

5. Avoid everything that fuels your weakness; pornography, lustful thoughts, evil company etc.

Note - Don't waste your destiny like Samson in the bible. Flee like Joseph. David the King paid dearly for his extra marital affair with Bathsheba...he reaped what he sowed despite being a man after God's heart. God help us all.

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